In the U.K, there are over 800,000 young carers aged between five and 17 years old.

The definition of a young carer varies across the U.K. In England and Scotland, a young carer is under the age of 18 years old, and a ‘young adult carer’ is aged up to age 25.
Similarly in Wales, the code of practice recognises young adult carers as aged 16-25.

Alongside the ‘normal’ day-to-day activities of a young person, like going to school, homework, making and maintaining friendships and taking care of themselves, a young carer may also: cook three meals a day for everyone in the home, do all the dishes, the laundry, vacuum, clean the bathroom and go food shopping. For the person they are caring for, they might help them shower, wash their hair and get dressed. They may provide intimate care such as help using the toilet or lift and move them from room to room or bed to chair. They could help them access and enjoy activities like going for a walk, going out for coffee or meeting a friend.

Being an unpaid carer for a family member or relative can be a stressful and lonely position for anyone to be in. For a young person who is going through the emotional, mental, and physical changes that come with growing up, it is not surprising that many feel overwhelmed, stressed and suffer from anxiety or other mental health problems.

Being a young carer can be socially isolating. Due to the extra time constraints associated with providing care, there could be limitations on how much socialising they are able to participate in. Even if the young person has free time, they may be too physically or emotionally tired.

The isolation is not just about being unable to take part in activities with peers. Missing school, getting behind in schoolwork and/or getting ‘in trouble’ at school can all lead to young people feeling ostracised from the rest of their classmates.

27% of young carers between the ages of 11-15 miss school, miss an average of 48 days a year.

It’s unfortunately still true that being in any way different can make a young person a target for bullying. A young carer who has a different routine from others, has different priorities and may even act more ‘grown-up’ than their peers could be a potential target for bullying. If a young carer is really struggling, there may also be aspects about their appearance that make them stand out, such as looking tired or personal hygiene issues.

Not every young person who is a carer will be struggling. Many will have support from family, friends or the relevant social services.

You can help by looking out for signs that a pupil or young person you know could be caring for someone and struggling to cope, such as:

Many young carers don’t even realise that they are a carer and so don’t know to reach out for help and support. In fact, 39% of young carers said that nobody in their school was even aware of their caring role.

Every young carer’s role as a care provider will be different and consist of different tasks and responsibilities. The level of support they already receive, the level of care they give and how much their own needs are already being met are just a few of the factors that will influence how much, and in what form they need support from others. However, here’s just some of the ways in which you can offer your support to a young carer:

There are many organisations throughout the UK which provide support for young carers. These services provide them with the chance to unwind and meet others in a similar position. They can learn more about the illness they’re caring for, and, critically, what other support is available for both them and their loved ones.

Action for Children
Childline
The Children’s Society
Honeypot
Family Action
Action for Children’s anonymous texting service ‘Sidekick’
Young Carers in Schools Programme